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A Day in the Neighborhood

A Day in the Neighborhood

December 15, 2019 (426 words)

It seems as if the things I most enjoy in life are all dying a slow death and on their way out. Like newspapers, magazines, and going to the movies. But I will continue to frequent all three for as long as they’re still around.

Desperate for something to see last night that wasn’t just another noisy entry in a long-running action franchise, I wandered into the new movie about Fred Rogers (1928-2003), a puppeteer and ordained Presbyterian minister who was the creator and host of the preschool television series “Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood,” which ran on PBS from 1968 to 2001.

His TV show was after my time as a child, so going in I didn’t have much of an opinion about the man or his work. Beyond thinking of him as a friendly presence who made a point not to talk down to kids.

While the clever quips of action heroes in pretend peril can be entertaining in a frothy, forgettable way, watching flawed men and women attempt to deal with real-life emotions is much more my cup of tea. And this movie has all that in spades.

The script was inspired by the 1998 article “Can You Say…Hero?” written by Tom Junod (b.1958) and published in Esquire magazine. In the film the journalist is named Lloyd Vogel, and he is portrayed as a talented writer with a chip on his shoulder.

We learn he has a few unresolved issues with a certain member of his immediate family. (This is something many of us can relate to, even if the immediate family member in question tends to vary from one situation to the next.)

Assigned to do a short, 400-word puff piece on Fred Rogers for a series about heroes, our cynical journalist is determined to poke holes in the TV host’s nice-guy persona. What ensues is a well-written, well-acted, and well-filmed story of a gentle 70 year-old man from Pittsburgh who helps untangle certain emotional knots for an award-winning 40 year-old New York City journalist.

This one caught me completely by surprise. My compliments go to everyone who had a hand in bringing this unusual story to the screen. It will move you tears, assuming you still have a pulse and haven’t been completely numbed by over-exposure to long-running action franchises.
At one point in the film Mr. Rogers explains his mission as trying to show children a healthy way to deal with their emotions. Of course this is something every single one of us needs help with, all through our lives, isn’t it?

Robert J. Cavanaugh, Jr.
December 15, 2019

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Missionaries of Gratitude

Missionaries of Gratitude

December 15, 2019 (514 words) When the long-time pastor at the small, neighborhood parish where I now attend Mass reached retirement age in 2015, the Archdiocesan office had no one to send us in his stead. So they imported a couple of young priests from South America. Our current pastor is a native of Columbia, born in 1982, who did his studies and was ordained in Madrid, Spain, on June 6, 2013. His right-hand man, identified in the parish bulletin as our Vicar, is a native of Venezuela and was born in 1992. He, too, did his studies in Madrid, but was ordained in Escuintla, Guatemala, on June 17, 2016. Both men identify as Priests of the Franciscans of Mary (FM), “an international association of the faithful,” founded in 1988 by Father Santiago Martin, a member of the diocesan clergy of Madrid. The association has its origins in a group of young people who felt called to live a spirituality based on devotion to St. Francis of Assis and the Blessed Virgin Mary, and to serve the poor on a voluntary basis. Also known as Missionaries of Gratitude, by 1991 FM began to spread to other dioceses in Spain. On April 13, 1993, the Archbishop of Madrid gave his formal approval of this new ecclesial association. On March 25, 2007 the Pontifical Council for the Laity granted pontifical approval of FM as a lay international association of the faithful, based on…

“…the fruits it has produced in the lives of numerous Christian faithful, thus becoming an authentic path in the school of sanctity and apostolate.

In addition to Spain, the Franciscans of Mary are now present in the US, Canada, throughout South America, Poland, Holland, and Italy, and even in Asia, where they have a presence in Sri Lanka. According to information found on www.familylife.va: The goal of the association is to live and spread the spirituality of gratitude, aiming at helping Catholics develop their relationship with God, basing it on thankfulness rather than the potential for personal gain, or fear. To reach this objective, those belonging to the association gather in “schools of gratitude” to receive a spiritual formation based on the Sunday Gospel and a concrete commitment to live it out. The participants, we are told, also receive an apologetic, moral, liturgical, and biblical formation to help them defend their faith and the Catholic Church in a society characterized by secularism and sects. Social voluntary work, evangelization through media, and parish “animation” are characteristics of adherents belonging to the association. Now, I can’t speak to any of that, since I’m not much of a joiner and have already embarked on my own modest little program of “evangelization through media.” But I can vouch for how our two young Franciscans of Mary priests from South America by way of Madrid, Spain say a reverent Mass and give inspired homilies. Watching these men execute their office – the way they carry themselves and conduct their affairs – helps the rest of us see there is no better way to live in this world than as a missionary of gratitude. Robert J. Cavanaugh, Jr. December 15, 2019

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The Last Word

The Last Word

December 8, 2019 (380 words)

When it comes to human affairs, it’s hard for any of us to claim the last word. No matter how highly developed our sense of discernment may be, there is always some perspective that escapes our notice, some angle we are just not privy to.

These motivational loose ends can turn our well-thought-out analysis on its head, and undermine the certainty we strive for in our condemnations. The nemesis we imagined is often just another flawed human being who is experiencing a weak moment, or struggling to contend with multiple (and often conflicting) factors.

This can be true not only of total strangers and public figures who come under our scrutiny, but also of those in our immediate circle of influence, such as friends or co-workers. It can apply to family members we think we know so well, and are therefore prone to judge even more harshly.

Some things in life can be known definitely. In confronting our fellow man certitude exceeds our grasp, and we are left making a concerted effort to comprehend the inscrutable.

There is a famous French aphorism I can only pronounce in English: To understand all is to forgive all. Truer words were never spoken.

Or, depending on one’s ideological disposition, one might say there is no end of worthy prayer intentions.

Before we bid farewell to this world and die, our senses usually fade, and we become inconsequential to those around us. We become little more than an afterthought – an object of the odd, perfunctory visit by unenthusiastic relations.

This is not as bad as it sounds, since by then the feeling is mutual, and our world has become just as inconsequential to those now approaching life’s final runway.

In a best-case scenario, we eventually age out and awkwardly teeter off the stage. Only to be replaced by countless younger ones who confidently take up the mantle and assume the position. They instinctively continue the long-running drama of assiduously discerning one’s surroundings, in a moment-by-moment assessment of praise or blame.

It amounts to a non-stop attempt to claim the last word, without ever realizing how futile the effort ultimately is. It’s the same old Sturm und Drang, the very thing that older ones, if they are lucky, have thankfully lost all appetite for.

Robert J. Cavanaugh, Jr.
December 8, 2019

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The First Thanksgiving

The First Thanksgiving

November 28, 2019 (989 words) My friends the social conservatives usually have their heart in the right place, but their automatic adoption of the economic and political worldview promoted by their distant cousins, the fiscal conservatives, is wrong-headed. It’s a classic case of strange bedfellows, and pointing this out can make for some awkward dinner-table conversation. Note, too, how fiscal conservatives cleverly wrap their blatantly self-centered, me-first approach to life in a mantle of morality and high-mindedness, borrowed from people they view as little more than backwoods relations, the social conservatives. This weird philosophical mash-up was on display in a recent little cable news presentation I happened to catch on TV the other day about The First Thanksgiving. We were told in a voice-over, while the camera focused on a grainy old lithograph of settlers in funny hats, how the original Puritans came to this country in order to live out their religious convictions. Showing gratitude to their creator for all they had been given was very important to them. They were escaping religious persecution, where showing such gratitude was frowned upon. That’s why the concept of “religious freedom” was so important then, and remains so today.

getting things exactly backwards…


Next, an earnest talking head explained the Puritans were looking for a new world order, where they did not have to answer to a King as their sovereign. Unlike the Old World, where “our rights came from government,” and could be taken away at the whim of an unelected ruler, here in this new world “our rights come from God,” and cannot be taken away. Then we were shown a dated clip of the Gipper himself, Ronald Reagan, who intoned with his trademark knowing grin something to the effect that “we are indeed one nation under God, and I believe God wants us to be free.” I couldn’t bring myself to watch the end of this program because, well, it’s hard to sit through so much awkward historical usurpation. Given the cable channel involved, it was obvious where all this somber invocation was headed. One expects the well-off to traffic in such morally-based justification of their aversion to oversight. As the fabled British wit G.K. Chesterton (1874-1936) put it:

The poor have sometimes objected to being governed badly, the rich have always objected to being governed at all.

The question is, why have so many well-intentioned people of more modest means accepted this ersatz, fiscal conservative version of recent history, and why have they adopted the same militantly adversarial posture toward government?

the incessant, decades-long drumbeat…


There are many reasons, of course, but among them must be counted the rise of talk radio and cable news outlets, and the incessant, decades-long conservative drumbeat of “you should keep your money,” and “you know what to do with your money better than the government does.” These same outlets are fond of reporting on inefficiency and waste in governmental attempts at social policy. They often have a point, as bureaucrats are no more immune to sloth and avarice than the rest of us. But is it fair to judge an institution – any institution – strictly by its failures, without considering its accomplishments? Stoking an adversarial mindset among the general populace may represent a celebration of the American spirit, but it runs counter to a Catholic understanding of public life, where government and business were intended to work cooperatively to promote the common good. The ranting and raving is above all else an effective diversionary tactic. It seems not a day goes by without some major piece of corporate malfeasance hitting the news, on either the national or international front. The bad actors are punished with heavy fines or other sanctions, which end up amounting to a slap on the wrist, and chalked up as “the cost of doing business,” so immensely profitably are these conglomerates. The agencies tasked with maintaining public order and a level playing field – to say nothing of trying to protect the interests of the unsuspecting – strain to keep up with the creativity and sophistication deployed by the perpetrators.

the big, nasty stuff we don’t focus on…


But I suppose all the really big, nasty stuff takes place over the head of rank-and-file social conservatives. Sinking one’s teeth into a generic discussion of regulatory restraint that “hurts economic growth” is easier to digest. So these well-intentioned souls side with fiscal conservatives who speak on behalf of our corporate behemoths, and shun the rag-tag “socialists” who highlight glaring holes in the trickle-down model. My (unsolicited) advice to social conservatives is two-fold. Realize that fiscal conservatives are not doing you any favors. And don’t let a label get in the way of properly evaluating a policy. Bernie Sanders may choose to call himself a “democratic socialist,” but that doesn’t make his economic proposals any less Catholic in nature, for that’s exactly what they are. This seemingly counter-intuitive observation prompts the following random thoughts. Random Thought #1: Any good idea is essentially Catholic (universal) in its understanding of the world. And every thinker who comes up with a good idea is a Catholic at heart, even if he or she is not yet prepared to assume the mantle. Random Thought #2: Faced with the brunt of exploitation certain capitalists have historically inflicted on their hapless employees, those employees see no recourse but to describe themselves as a “socialist,” which is really only short for “I’m an anti-capitalist, at least the way it’s been played on me.” Random Thought #3: The Rockefeller interests may no longer be hiring independent contractors dressed as federal agents to shot and kill striking mine workers, as they did in Colorado in 1914. But are things really any less dire for today’s workers, who are told by fiscal conservatives how they enjoy the “freedom” to “negotiate an appropriate wage with the employer of your choice.” Robert J. Cavanaugh, Jr. November 28, 2019

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History

History

November 25, 2019 (16 words)

There are many different stories in this world, and they are all being played out simultaneously.

Robert J. Cavanaugh, Jr.
November 25, 2019

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Civilizing America

Civilizing America

November 17, 2019 (1,204 words) At the fall of the no longer Holy Roman Empire, the western territory had been laid waste by Visigoths and other barbarians, and found itself in pretty bad shape. The ravaged, war-torn landscape was slowly nursed back to health – civilized and reconverted to the faith – on its way to becoming the glorious continent called Europe, by small groups of Benedictine monks. Starting in what are now thought of as the Germanic lands, these unmarried men dedicated themselves first and foremost to improving the material lot of the common rabble living in the immediate vicinity of each monastery. Of course said monks were also keenly interested in the spiritual well-being of the unfortunates they were assisting. It wasn’t just about tending to temporal needs. They had a dual mission, fueled by the premise that for anyone who is not a contemplative or a mystic, the surest way to that person’s heart and mind is through their stomach. They dutifully preserved the intellectual heritage of the early Church and naturally sought to communicate it to all those they came in contact with. But their unique form of evangelization consisted primarily of providing instruction in the domestic arts, such as agriculture and animal husbandry. It’s also worth noting some of these hard-working men were of noble birth, yet physical labor was a big part of everyone’s job description, regardless of what one’s previous station in life may have been. The intellectual heritage they were preserving and playing forward could be summed up as the natural law, with its acknowledgement of moral absolutes, which originate with an innate sense of right and wrong that is written on every human heart. The humble Benedictines did a superb job of articulating all of this, along with a uniquely Catholic understanding of human dignity and human flourishing, by dint of their daily activities.

our prosperity does not automatically make us civilized…


On the face of it our situation here in the United States of 2019 is very different, since many of us enjoy a level of material prosperity unprecedented in the history of Western civilization. But still we find ourselves at loose ends when it comes to the spiritual dimension. Or if that word makes you squeamish, let’s call it the meaning-of-life department. Having broken off into many different factions and special interest groups, we obviously lack any sense of shared purpose. In fact we almost appear to be on the verge of civil war. Our most eloquent journalists and politicians speak of calling on our better angels, and suggest the path to a national reconciliation involves rededicating ourselves to the noble egalitarian ideals we think of our founders as having started out with. Social conservatives who usually identify as traditional religious believers yearn for something even more profound – what they ambitiously refer to as a restoration of the culture. They correctly identify the modern world’s main malady as its collective dismissal of moral absolutes that once served as reliable guideposts for both private and public behavior. This has, in turn, negatively impacted society’s sense of what constitutes a respect for human dignity, and what qualifies as human flourishing. It has confused us as to what real progress should look like.

trading moral absolutes for the primacy of individual conscience…


While this dismissal of moral absolutes in favor of the primacy of individual conscience had been advocated by a variety of elites who promoted their heterodox ideas over several centuries, it actually achieved widespread dissemination by way of the sea change in how we chose to do economics over those same centuries. Concern for the common good and for the least among us, which permeates the Gospels and animated the medieval monks, was gradually but irrevocably replaced by an emancipation of the individual from such communal concern. The new economic paradigm came to be known as enlightened self-interest. Our pastors talk of the need to integrate our prayer life and spiritual life with our work lives and our family and leisure activities. Thoughtful believers can trace the departmentalization our pastors so artfully describe back to when we moderns discarded the notion of moral absolutes. But our pastors and our thoughtful believers are unable or unwilling to connect all the dots. The dismissal of moral absolutes has always expressed itself most clearly and forcefully in the way we as a society approach the economic question. This is why our work lives so often seem at odds with our family life. Even thoughtful believers are stuck trying to conduct the public and private portion of their existence by following two different (and opposing) sets of rules. There are a slew of astute social commentators coming up with all sorts of perceptive ideas on how to heal our nation’s fractures, and the fissures that are popping up around the globe. But this layman with no special expertise thinks the key to everything is quite simple and straightforward. We have to take the concept of free enterprise, which has generated so much economic opportunity and enhanced the material circumstances of so many, and infuse it with the message of the Gospels.

the need for a modern-day alchemy…


We have to figure out a way to achieve what amounts to a modern-day alchemy. In this case the transformation of dross into gold will occur when we integrate the two sides of our nature – the temporal that is pre-occupied with our own material advancement, and the spiritual that inclines us to social responsibility. Or as some might put it, we need to call on our better angels when it comes to how we conduct ourselves during the work week. Affecting this dramatic paradigm shift will fall in large measure to our smartest and most successful citizens, and the hugely profitable corporations they oversee. They are the ones with their hands on the levers of power. They are the ones who drive public policy and the larger social agenda. For example, we wouldn’t need to be discussing a wealth tax to fund something as basic as universal health care, if the clever and the advantaged who have benefited most from the “absence of obstacles” that gives free rein to their energy and creative ideas, would take to heart such familiar Gospel passages as the one establishing a moral obligation to share your cloak with the stranger who has none. While the lion’s share of implementing this radical recasting of our public imagination may be out of their modest hands, thoughtful believers intent on restoring the culture can nevertheless help re-orient society’s current priorities by themselves finally getting around to admitting the boring, dismal science of economics as something that falls squarely under the heading of “morality.” For those who think the New Testament has lost none of its relevance to daily living, why are you so quick to discount and disregard the sections that speak directly to the subject of “economic” behavior? Along the same lines, why are so many of these same believers of the opinion “the Pope has no business” commenting on our economic life? Or likely to pay no attention when one of them actually does so? Robert J. Cavanaugh, Jr. November 17, 2019

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